I’m still marching through my latest read; Why Men Hate Church. I’m simply enthralled in a journey of self discovery; page after page describes me to a tee. I must say it’s a little disconcerting. I will post up some more complete thoughts when I’ve completed it but here is something that made me laugh and then a little concerned when I saw the truth in it.

David Murrow has spent some time talking about the ‘worship’ part of the service and how this can often be more of a hindrance to men meeting with God. Obviously talking in wild sweeping statements and in very general terms it discusses the battle that has raged between champions of different worship styles since the 1970’s. Those who like the hymns and those who like ‘contemporary praise’.

Scratch the masculine itch


The problem is that neither particularly scratches the masculine itch. Many old hymns have fantastic battle cries. The words conjure up visions of fighting the good fight, good verse evil, we are in a battle that has eternal consequences. However, the music is dated and simply not relevant and therefore turns many men (and young people and women) off.

On the other hand, modern praise music has the relevant ‘contemporary’ tunes (even if the general flow seems to be towards soft, gentle love songs) but the words are more akin to leading somebody into the bedroom than leading somebody into spiritual battle.

Women can engage with this because (generally speaking, please don’t shoot me) they want safety, security, and often have an image of Jesus as the prefect man (great husband material). Men simply do not want to feel romantic about another man!!!

Lead us into battle!


So I echo David’s question / plea. Can worship leaders / song writers please stop trying to lead us into the bedroom? Lead us into battle! I’d be interested to know what you make of this analysis of worship services (especially the worship leaders among our readership)