Don’t destroy your brother
Category : Bible
Paul himself was only too well aware of the potential for disunity. In fact, much of what he writes in his letters to the churches addresses the problems caused by the Christiansââ?¬â?¢ disagreements about various doctrines. In this respect, Romans chapter 14 is a masterpiece regarding our approach to dealing with issues where there are differences of opinion. Here, the issue was about what was considered lawful to eat or abstain from. Paul himself knows whatââ?¬â?¢s correct ââ?¬â?? namely that itââ?¬â?¢s fine now under the new covenant to eat anything ââ?¬â?? see verse 14. However, he goes on to explain in the next verse that if we insist on being ââ?¬Ë?rightââ?¬â?¢ and force others to agree to our view, then ââ?¬Ë?you are no longer acting in loveââ?¬â?¢. The verse ends with a classic bit of scripture ââ?¬â?? worth memorising this bit:: ââ?¬Ë?Do not by your eating destroy your brother for whom Christ died.ââ?¬â?¢ What a fantastic bit of practical advice! So we could substitute the word ââ?¬Ë?eatingââ?¬â?¢ with whatever doctrine we have strong views about ââ?¬â?? e.g. Israel, Predestination, the Tribulation, Worship, Gifts of the Spirit etc. etc.
This doesn�t mean that we shouldn�t make a stand on issues. Nor should we water down our beliefs just to avoid opposition. It�s more to do with our attitude towards others who don�t share our view. Christ has taken the ultimate step in dying on the cross for people He wants to save. Let�s not destroy that work just for the sake of making a point.

