This is a difficult question. On the one hand we want to be defenders of the faith; if we know that by their words or actions somebody is misrepresenting the truth of the Gospel of Jesus Christ then we want to go in and correct their “evil ways”. On the other hand there are so many flavours of Christianity that who is to say who is correct on any given issue.Fortunately (though maybe it’s unfortunately with this particular question in mind) Christianity, contra to popular belief, is not about a collection of rules and there are very few black and white issues.

So who is to say who is right? The world looks on at Christian communities and churches and sees a bunch of people who are divided against themselves. A group of people who are more concerned with what separates them rather than what unites them. Whatever damage a false witness may cause, a solution which leads to division and disunity among God’s people is not a good one.

This sounds a little bit like I am avoiding the question. *smile*

What did Jesus have to say on such issues?

  1. Remove the plank from your own eye before you look at the spec in someone else’s eye! (Matthew 7: 1-5)
  2. Let God deal with them as you don’t want to get it wrong and be fighting against God. (Acts 5: 29-39 - Maybe read the chapter to give a bit of context to this excerpt.)
  3. How will people know that you are my disciples? By how you love one another! (John 13: 34-35)

All good advice but what does it mean in a practical way in this context.

  1. Pray, for yourself, that you have clarity on the issue. Then pray for individual in question that they will be prompted by the Holy Spirit.
  2. Talk to them; quietly, personally, without making a scene or a big fuss. Ask about what they doing / saying and ask them to explain how it is compatible with a relationship with Jesus Christ.
  3. If you still disagree explain your point of view.
  4. If you still don’t agree, leave them to it.

Ultimately Jesus was always interested in the individuals far more than what they were doing or saying. The classic ‘Christian’ line, hate the sin, love the sinner holds some water in this instance.  Let’s love each other, focus on what unites us, and let God worry about the rest.